“NEW-NEW” Personal Growth, Letting Go, Unfollow Buttons and Happiness.

I’m not the one to make New Year resolutions, nor am I a therapist, psychologist or psychiatrist. However, as we enter a new year, I felt led to share thoughts about life, growth and self-reflection.  

I’m sure there’s been a time that you’ve made up your mind to change your life and move on from some terrible things that may have happened to you. Not to mention, there’s always someone who likes to bring up your “struggles” or things to remind you of your hurtful past. 

It almost feels like they remind you so much of your former life issues to keep you trapped in those negative feelings….keep you sad, hurt, angry… pretty much anything to maintain the negative energy that you try to rid your life of. Bottom line, they piss you off and show the total opposite of support, right? 

Well, I’m here to tell you that it’s time to let go of the bullsh*t. Let those negative people go… PRESS THE DAMN UNFOLLOW BUTTON because it’s obvious that misery loves company. 

Get “new-new” with your NEW attitude. Surprise them. Tell them about your disappointment in their lack of support as your loved one, and how you’re walking away from the mess they try to add/maintain in YOUR life. (after all, YOU ARE IN CONTROL of YOUR LIFE… not them).  

Next step… 

Recognize that depression and “feelings of defeat” ARE OVER and NEED TO STOP. You didn’t lose… YOU LEARNED.   

It’s time to be NEW. 

You must decide to Stop entertaining the negative stuff… Depressing stuff…Debbie downers and naysayers… Get back to you. You are important. You have a purpose.  

Get over the BS…

Those so-called friends/family/people/things from your past are no longer positive to your growth. Yes, they all have played an intricate part of your life for quite some time… and things are easier said than done, but at some point you must allow yourself to let them go, and focus on the upward progression of your life. Those things are #nowirrelevant.  

The other important factor is accepting the reality that YOU play in YOUR life change. It’s a BIG, vital role to being happier with yourself. Forgive yourself for making certain choices/decisions, and move on.  

Learn to understand WHY you made such choices in the past. Learn to love yourself and create your own happiness, then move forward. 

Once you do this, you’d be surprised at how many emotional, spiritual, mental and social “doors” will open up for you. 

I’ve learned (and am still learning) how this works, and I still don’t always get it right. I’ve experienced relapses, then I’ve bounced back like nothing ever happened… and I plan to keep it that way. 

My Testimony… 

Above all, I must say that I’m proud of ME because I can see my growth spiritually, mentally, emotionally, socially and physically. I flow with much more confidence in all that I am and will be. I attract more positivity. I speak from experience and I’m excited to see what will happen next in my life.  

You can/will do the same.  

Trust and Believe in your Creator. 

I can’t wait to share more with you here at Rated-Ransom.com.  

HAPPY NEW YEAR ❗❗❗

Peace, Love and Blessings to All! ✨ 

1/2/2017